Seeing: The Candid Photography Philosophy

Before we get into the nitty-gritty of camera settings and lens choices, I need to share my core premise about this style of spontaneous family photography.

At its heart, candid photography is not about buying expensive camera gear or memorizing technical rules; it's about learning 'how to see.' Seeing the light, seeing the geometry of the frame, and seeing the unposed, fleeting moment before it vanishes. That’s really all there is to it.

Some people know every technical detail about cameras and optical design but can't 'see' a compelling photograph in front of them. Others can see the shots instantly but lack the simple camera mechanics needed to pull them off. Just as music is about 'listening' and cooking is about 'tasting,' candid kids' photography is entirely about 'seeing.'

That said, almost everything in this guide is my possibly worthless opinion. Anyone who tells you "this is the only way you can do it" about any creative craft is simply wrong. What they really want to say is, "if you're not doing it like me, you're doing it wrong."

Everyone possesses an innate degree of creative vision. Feel free to borrow—or outright steal—ideas you like; every accomplished photographer does it. In time, your own distinct style will naturally emerge based on how you see the world around you.